tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5835990102340373468.post5353928463444283853..comments2021-12-29T22:50:45.891-05:00Comments on A Reason to Live...: If only THEY knew....Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06163962594434709570noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5835990102340373468.post-51782407540276009152011-02-02T23:51:47.537-05:002011-02-02T23:51:47.537-05:00oh Abigail, I am so so sorry. I had no idea. :( I ...oh Abigail, I am so so sorry. I had no idea. :( I am just now reading this. BIG HUGS TO YOU. I dont NOT mean to scare them but I just know, being in the BLM community, I know ALL too well, all and then some that can go wrong and I just want to stop it from happening (if I can) to my friends. :(Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06163962594434709570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5835990102340373468.post-82808923894244612712011-01-28T13:05:03.889-05:002011-01-28T13:05:03.889-05:00I know exactly how you feel. I have been pregnant ...I know exactly how you feel. I have been pregnant 5 times and have 4 children. I suffered a miscarriage. I often said that I wish I was as naive throughout all my pregnancies because once you know what can go wrong it is very unsettling. With this last pregnancy I was so super nervous of everything (I suffered the miscarriage right before this last pregnancy) I often didn't feel "right" or was just super anxious that it has hard to keep track of my babies movements but I didn't want to call the doctor because I was afraid they would dismiss me. It wasn't until I started attending the Hope Faith Remembrance meetings and the others said to me that I should just go in to get peace of mind because it is better to find out if there is something wrong then let things get out of control. You are kind and I wish your friend understood you are only trying to look out for her & her baby! Those of us who have suffered a loss know that things can change from one day to the next in a heartbeat!Abigailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182994327965258583noreply@blogger.com